Social Pressure
If you are feeling pressured or coerced into having an abortion, you have the right to refuse. This page provides important information on recognizing coercion, understanding your legal rights, and accessing support. Whether you’re facing pressure from a clinic, family, or others, you are not alone.
Preventing a Coerced Abortion
Some women who “choose” to get a medication abortion actually don’t choose it at all. Rather, they feel pressured or are even forced against their will to have an abortion (source). If you find yourself in any of the following situations, you need to know that you always have the right to refuse any type of abortion. If you are in an unsafe or dangerous situation or if you are being threatened, please call 911 or go to an emergency medical facility.
Some online abortion pill providers encourage dishonesty with doctors. If you’ve taken these pills, seek follow-up care and be honest with your provider. Save any packaging or order details for reference.
Severe Risks and Complications
Clinic Workers Say Abortion Is Best?
Abortion clinics profit when you choose abortion, which can cost between $300 and $800 (source). Instead, consider seeking advice from a pregnancy medical center that offers unbiased care.
To find one near you, contact us or visit optionline.org. Trusted family members, clergy, or youth leaders can also help you make an informed decision.
What if My Family Forces Me?
Legally, you have the right to refuse an abortion. No one, including parents or guardians, can force you to have one unless your life is in danger (source). Be cautious if pressured to take mail-order abortion pills, especially without a licensed provider’s prescription.
What If I Am Brought Against My Will?
If you’re being coerced into an abortion, alert the clinic staff and ask them to call the police. At home or elsewhere, tell a trusted person, such as a case worker or teacher, and call 911. Any phone can call 911, even without a plan, and you can also text 911 via WiFi. For further assistance, contact the Center Against Forced Abortions.
What If I Don’t Want to Have Sex?
If you’re being forced into sex or sexual acts, know it is never your fault. This is often linked to abuse or human trafficking, which is illegal. For help, contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888 or text 233733.
What If They Take Me Away?
If someone is forcing you into sex or sexual acts, it is never your fault. Sometimes, coercion for abortion is used to cover up abuse. If you’re being forced to have sex in exchange for basic needs or safety, this is human trafficking and it’s illegal. For help, contact the human trafficking hotline, call 1-888-373-7888, or text 233733.
The Choice Is Yours
Nobody can force you to have an abortion. You have the right to make your own choice. Many resources can help you through a safe and healthy pregnancy. For more information, visit optionline.org.
DISCLAIMER: This website does not provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Seek emergency care if you experience:
Heavy bleeding (soaking two or more pads per hour for two hours) (Mayo Clinic)
Severe abdominal or back pain
Fever lasting more than 24 hours
Foul-smelling vaginal discharge (Mayo Clinic)